Dating as a Single Mom!


To Love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides." 
~Dr. David Viscott


As you can tell from the name of this website, dating is not my area of greatest success! At the same time, being single for a very long time has given me plenty of time to research the subject!

I know it is said that a woman has exactly the kind of love life she desires, but that seems to be only said by men, and I find this to be untrue.

Were it true, women would have exactly the kind of life in every aspect that we want to have. We would live exactly where we wanted, drive the cars we wanted, have great paying totally fulfilling jobs, our kids would be perfect angels who always turn in their homework, and men would be totally loving, attentive, and would always pick up their socks and put down the toilet seat.

While women don't have the power to control the Universe, we do have the ability to arm ourselves with information, date, and have a great time. So...let's get going!


Ways to find Mr. Right:

So you want to go out, but where to start and how to find your guy?

There are at least six ways to meet your lover:

1. Fix Ups

2. The Internet

3. Matchmaking

4. Hanging Out at Meeting Places

5. Co-Workers Relationships

6. Meeting By Chance


There are a few things to remember when dating...

  1. Dating takes time and energy, so be patient. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince, and frog hunting is a slow process.
  2. If you decide you need a break, take it. This is not a race, and it is best to date when you are in the proper state of mind. If you are forcing yourself to do something you don't want to do, your partner will pick up on this and the date won't go well anyway.
  3. There are lots and lots of books out there if you want a little guidance. Love Smart by Dr. Phil, and Steve Harvey's Act Like a Lady; Think Like a Man are two of my favorites. Just a cautionary note here. Only try to implement one or two tips from your books at a time. There is nothing worse than feeling you are doing nothing right when it comes to finding Mr. Right, and there are no magic formulas.
  4.  Decide up front whether you want a relationship, or if you just want a good time. Either are fine, but they don't mix well.
  5.  Starting a relationship with kids in tow is a whole new ballgame. Give a great deal of thought to how and when you will introduce your kids to your new man, and how you will handle displays of affection. Make these decisions before the issues arise and you will be well prepared when the moment arrives.

Most importantly...no matter what...love yourself! You are fabulous and you deserve the greatest guy there is. Don't ever forget it!



Click here to return Home. 



Sign up for your:

(We never, ever sell, lend, or otherwise share your email address. (pinky swear!))

Send My Super Tips!
Email:
For Email Marketing you can trust



SEARCH!

We've got a TON of powerful tips and tools on this site! Click here to find what you need!




What's in a name?

This is just plain fun! Use the Love Calculator to test your relationship potential.

And for the record...me and Dwayne Johnson...92% chance of success. I'm just sayin'.

Recent Articles

  1. 7 Pointers for Single Moms to Enjoy a Successful, Simple Holiday Season

    Dec 08, 14 06:59 PM

    Doing all the holiday prep by yourself can get crazy fast. These 7 pointers will help single moms assure a great family focused holiday season.

    Read More

  2. Single Mother of two and now pregnant

    Dec 05, 14 08:07 PM

    I was dating a man who used to be my boss for 8 years. He left his wife when we started dating. She came home one day and never left. He stayed living

    Read More

  3. "the TALK"

    Nov 19, 14 08:21 PM

    I am a single mum with a 15year old boy...I can see he is busy changing, his voice more deeper, pimples, notice hair under the arms...what age does boys

    Read More