When to tell a man you have kids

by Isadora
(New Haven CT)

I just met a man at a singles happy hour briefly and he asked me out. We will go out this evening for the first time.. When should I tell him that I have a 4 year old? 1st date? as soon as we sit down or casually. Or the second date if there is one?

thanks, Isa

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Telling a date you have kids
by: Sara Says...

Great question, Isa! You must be young! At my age, men ask pretty quickly. lol!

While I don't think it has to be the first thing out of your mouth, in the course of first date it likely will come up as you tell each other about yourselves. I have always been inclined to share this information with a date just as I would with anyone else, simply because I always wanted to know early how dates felt about the fact that I was a package deal. Enjoy your search!

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