I have been doing the single mom thing for over 20 years.
My son arrived when I was a 23 year old college student. His father was not interested in parenting, so we were our own. It was not easy! I was scared, lonely, a bit humiliated, and broke. Even though I worked 48 hours a week as an assistant manager at a local restaurant, I qualified for Medicaid. In fact, I was the first person to walk into the new Medicaid Healthy Start Prenatal Clinic at the local hospital.
I finished my degree...but put my dreams of a big Public Relations career on the shelf in order to take a daycare friendly position that just paid the bills.
When my son was five years old I married the man of my dreams! Or so I thought. We added two daughters to our family before our 2nd wedding anniversary, and my husband launched his own business. Unfortunately, his profits were nill, and my income was not enough to meet our needs. When faced with deciding between the business and the family, the business won.
On my own again, this time with three kids in tow. I was scared to death but determined to move forward. Did I mention that in the middle of all this my son's father showed up with his wife and four children? In a period of two years my son went from having no siblings to having six of them!
It has certainly been a wild ride, and very few minutes have been anything like my young girl visions of a fairy tale life. My children and I have not only persevered, we have succeeded. One year after my divorce we left our small 2 bedroom apartment and moved into our newly built four bedroom home. I went on to earn a Master's Degree, while keeping everyone clothed, fed, and on track. My 20+ year career in the disabilities field has taken me from mom on Medicaid to a professional woman making Medicaid policy decisions for my entire state! I have even recovered from ten periods of unemployment...all experienced as a single mom!
It is through adversity that we grow, and like you, I often feel as though I must be about 20 feet tall by now!!
My children are fabulous individuals who are polite (at least in public), empathetic, critical thinkers, and happy. I could not be more proud of them!
If we fail as parents, we succeed at nothing.
~Jackie Kennedy Onassis
I whole-heartedly agree with this quote. As a single parent you have much to accomplish, and it ain't easy!
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Your website is amazing. I am going to make some time for this. I will learn tons from what you have on here. AWESOME!
I just finished reading 3 of your sections, particularly your story about raising a teen and connecting with God and became very inspired!! God allowed me to find your site because He knew I needed to know that as a single mom I'm not alone...
Just..thank you. Thank you for the great advice but mostly thankyou for helping me find peace & hope in God..in a place that I least expected it! :)