Son wants to live with dad
(Katy, Texas )
My son is 14 and just dropped the bombshell that he wants to move back to Ohio to be with his siblings from his dads side. His dad has been absent for most of his but seems to have his stuff together.
As hard as it is I am willing to let my son go so he (after several different options I gave him).
His dad is open to letting him move there but wants to talk to a psychologist first and get their opinion if this is a good step for our son.
My husband is discouraged because the way he sees it is how can a stranger who has never met my son know what to say and now we are going to have a teenager that's going to be moping around and giving attitude because he doesn't want to live with us.
My husband sees it as if he doesn't want to live with us let him go and doesn't see the point of getting a psychologist involved. In away I agree with him but in away I see what my son's dad is saying. Either way it doesn't make it less hurtful. From an outsider's point what are your thoughts.
Heart broken mom